Introduction:
The Prophet - peace be upon him - for the occurrence of follow-up to his nation of the United earlier, Jews, Christians and Persians, not this - no doubt - of praise for doing this, but is of slander and intimidation, was narrated that Abu Sa'eed al - may Allah be pleased with him - that the Prophet - peace be upon him - said: {will certainly follow the ways of those before you, Shubra inch cubit, even if you have taken the hole of a lizard Sketmoh, we said: O Messenger of God Jews and Christians? He said it!?} , Bukhari (3269) and Muslim (2669).
Abu Hurayrah - may Allah be pleased with him - from the Prophet - peace be upon him - said: {The Hour will not even take my take centuries before Shubra inch cubit, it was said: O Messenger of God and the Roman riders? He said: Those are the people? } . Bukhaari (6888), taking the centuries: walking on their careers.
The ignorant of this nation, and the innovators and Znadegtha previous nations, the Jews and the Christians and Persians, in their beliefs and their own curriculum and their attitude and their organizations, which concerns us - now - that we should point out in these days is their followers and Mchabhtm in inventing "Gala mother" or "Holiday Family", the day coined by Christians honor - as they claim - to the mother, so he crashes a day Mazma departments and where people reach their mothers and sending them gifts and kind messages, and if things ended the day back to what it was of estrangement and disobedience.
The irony of Muslims ever needing to come to such similar Allaah has enjoined on them the righteousness of the mother and deprived them Akogaha and make the penalty that the highest grades.
- Definition of holiday:
Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said: "the name given to a yearly, back of the meeting on the face of the usual return: either a stick or a stick of year, week or month or so," " Mustaqeem "(1 / 441).
Ibn al-Abdeen - may God have mercy on him: - "Eid is so called; because Allaah repeatedly bestows blessings, ie, types of blessings that come back to the slaves every day, including: breaking the fast after refraining from eating, and Sadaqah al-Fitr, and the completion of Hajj Tour de visit, and the meat of sacrificial animals , and so on, and because usually the joy and pleasure, activity and joy. " "Ibn Abidin footnote" (2 / 165).
The Muslim may note the large number of holidays for Muslims in these times, such as "Holiday tree" and "Holiday workers" and "Holiday sit" and "Holiday" Birth ... etc. and so on in a long list, and all that to follow the Jews and the Christians and the polytheists, no basis for this in religion , not only in Islam, Eid al-Adha and Eid al-Fitr.
Anas bin Malik said, was for the people of ignorance two days each year which they would play when the Prophet - peace be upon him - the city said: {You had two days you play, which Allaah has given you something better than them: the day of Fitr and the day of Adha} . R. Wah, Abu Dawood (1134) and the Women (1556), as saheeh by al-Albaani.
- Honouring one's mother
Almighty God said: ) The worship of God and join none with Him and dutiful to your parents, kinsfolk, orphans, the needy and the neighbor of kin and neighbor side and Saheb says, and the wayfarer and proprietary that God does not like who was swaggering proud ( [Women / 36].
and the Almighty said: ) And your Lord has not to worship none but Him and dutiful to your parents, either they reach old age have one or both say not to them but address them in disrespect, nor say to them a word of generous ( [Isra / 23].
Abu Hurayrah - may Allah be pleased with him - said: A man came to the Messenger of Allah - peace be upon him - said: O Messenger of God from the people is in good company? He asked, he said: Then who? He said: Then your mother, he said: Then who? He said: Then your mother, he said: Then who? He said: Then your father. Bukhaari (5626) and Muslim (2548).
, Said Hafiz Ibn Hajar: "Ibn Battal: go with that of the mother three times what the father of the land, he said, and that was the difficulty of pregnancy and the situation, then breastfeeding This unique mother and miserable, and then engaged the father in Education, has signed a reference to this in saying Almighty: ) dutiful and good to his parents his mother, and here they and segregator in two years ( , fashioned in due proportion between them in custody, and in particular the mother matters three-Qurtubi said: what is meant that the mother is entitled to the child the best chance of righteousness, and progress in the right of the father at the competition, and said Ayaz: The majority said that the mother would prefer in the land of the father, and was said to be honoring them both, and transferred some of the owner and the right thing first. " "Fath" (10/402).
And even the mother entangling the sharee'ah Hakim wants simple connection: Only names of the girl of Abu Bakr - may Allah be pleased with them - said: My mother came to me at the time the Messenger of Allah - peace be upon him - I asked the Messenger of Allah - peace be upon him - I said, provided My mother is willing to uphold the ties of my mother? He said: Yes, your mother pray. Bukhari (2477).
- Mothers in kaafir countries:
Those who study the conditions of families in general and mothers in particular in non-Muslim societies will hear and read of strange things can hardly find any complete family whose members keep each other as well as for meeting and conversing as well as a meeting lasting.
As some observers in kaafir countries: You may find in the markets or streets, and her son or daughter, or father and son and daughter, but it is rare to see a whole family going shopping or walking in the streets.
When the father or mother grows old quick bar! Them to put them in the role of the infirm and the elderly, some Muslims have gone to some of the role and asked a dozen of his wish for the elderly, they all said: Death!! And to live because of what one of them from the misery, grief and sorrow on the case, which arrived one of them and abandoned them to their loved ones at a time when they need them.
- The time for rejoicing when the mother of States:
Celebrating Mother's Day date varies from country to country, as well as a method to celebrate.
Norway hosted the second Sunday of February, while in Argentina it is on the second Sunday of October, in Lebanon is the first day of spring, and South Africa is celebrated on the first Sunday of May.
In France it is celebrated more as a family festival on the last Sunday in May, when family members get together for dinner and then give a cake to the mother.
Sweden also has a family holiday gala on the last Sunday of May and the few days before that the Swedish Red Cross sells small plastic roses to give to their mothers who have been on holiday for the care of their children.
In Japan, the day is celebrated on the second Sunday of May, as in North America, where exhibitions are pictures drawn by children between six and fourteen years of age and within a traveling exhibition called "Mom" is moved every 4 years the exhibition will tour several countries.
- Holiday Mother, History:
Some researchers have said: "Some historians have suggested that the rejoicing mother had begun when the Greeks in the celebrations of the Spring Festival, and these were the celebrations dedicated to the mother goddess," RIA "wife" Cronos "God the Father, and in ancient Rome there was a similar to the celebrations devoted to the worship or veneration of "Sybil" - another mother of the gods. This began about 250 years before the birth of Jesus Christ; and the religious ceremonies of the Romans were called "Hilaria" and lasted for three days from March 15 to March 18.
- Sunday in England
Was a day similar celebrations Holiday Mother's, but it was called a maternal or one half of fasting, because it was held in the period of Lent they have, and some say that the celebrations were held to worship and honor the "Sybil" ROMANIAN changed by the church ceremonies of reverence and veneration of Mary, peace be upon her , and this custom began of individuals to visit the church affiliates and the mother church loaded with offerings, and in 1600 young and young people with the character of simple and Alkhademon to visit their mothers in "a mother", bringing gifts and food, this is for England, the United States of America was there another story .
- United States:
Anna. M. Jarvis: (1864-1948): She had the idea of making day gala mother an official holiday in the United States, they never married and had a very strong relationship with her mother and the son of the monastery, and taught in the Sunday School of the Church of the regular "Andrew" in the Grafton, West Virginia, and after the death of her mother two years later began a widespread campaign included businessmen, ministers and congressmen; to declare Holiday mother an official holiday in the country, and had a sense that children do not appreciate what you do mothers during their lives, and she hoped that this day of children's sense and their mothers and fathers, and strengthen family ties.
- The beginning:
The church honored Miss Anna Jarvis in Grafton, West Virginia and Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, on the tenth of May 1908, and was the beginning of Mother's Day in the United States.
The pink of the roses, her mother's favorite, especially white; because it reflects the good and purity and endurance, which is characterized by the mother's love, and over time became pink red to indicate that the mother is alive, and white that the mother left for life.
The first official announcement of rejoicing mother in the United States was West Virginia and Oklahoma State in 1910, however in 1911 the entire U.S. celebrated this day, however this time the celebrations had entered both from Mexico, Canada, China, Japan, Latin America and Africa, and then approved by the U.S. Congress officially to announce the celebration of Mother's Day, in the tenth of May, 1913, was chosen on the first Sunday of the month of May to celebrate Mother's Day.
- Holiday Arab mother:
The idea of celebrating Mother's Day Arab in Egypt at the hands of brothers, "Mustafa and Ali Amin," the founders of Dar Akhbar Al-Youm newspaper .. Has responded to the Secretary of the same message from his estranged mother complaining about her children and ill-treated her, and suffer from Nkeranam of the beautiful .. And happened to be one of the mothers visited Mustafa Ameen in his office .. And told him her story, which can be summarized in that it was widowed and her young, not married, and stopped her life for her children, the role of the father and mother, and has been caring for her children at full capacity, even graduated from the University, and married, and took them all his life, did not return they visit only at intervals too far apart for He wrote Mustafa Amin and Ali Amin Amodahma famous "idea" propose to devote a day to the mother as a reminder of thanks, indicating that the West is doing it, and that Islam promotes interest in the mother, Fanahalt letters they encourage the idea, and suggested that allocates a week for the mother and not just one day, and others rejected the idea on the grounds that all the days of the year for the mother and not one day only, but the majority of readers agreed on the idea of one day, and participated readers to choose on March 21, to be a feast for the mother, the first day of spring; to be a symbol of openness and serenity and feelings Fine .. And Egypt celebrated the first Holiday or on March 21, 1956 .. From Egypt came the idea to other Arab countries .. Some have suggested at one time named Gala mother long the family to be in honor of the father as well, but this idea was met with great acceptance, and people that reduction of the right of the mother, or that the owners of the idea of rejoicing family "WANT" to the mother days allocated .. Until now celebrates this day the Arab countries through various media .. And honor the ideal mothers who experienced the struggle of the great stories for their children at every level. End
No wonder then to learn that more than celebrate this holiday, Jews and Christians and Almichbhon them, and show that as the attention of women, mother and celebrates some of the clubs in the Arab world Masonic Mother Knuada Rotary and Lions.
By the way, the day of rejoicing mother of 21 March is the Year of the Coptic Christians, the day of Nowruz Gala of the Kurds.
- The legal position of the mother rejoicing:
Islam is rich in what others invented, whether the mother or other festivity, and in the legislation of mainland mothers is no need for rejoicing mother innovators.
Fatwas of the scholars:
1 - Scientists said the Standing Committee:
Praise be to Allah alone and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger and his family .. And after:
First - Fiesta name for the back of the meeting on the face of unusual or a stick of the year, month, week, or so on a yearly, collects, inter alia: on return day of Eid al-Fitr on Friday, including: meeting that day, including: the business being conducted on that day acts of worship and habits.
Secondly - what was it intended as rituals or veneration gain wage, or was it like people of ignorance or so of communities infidels is an innovation forbidden within the general words of the Prophet peace be upon him "from the latest in a hurry this is not part of it rejected. "Bukhari and Muslim, for example, the celebration of birth and rejoicing mother and the National Day because in the first creation of worship not ordained by God, as the imitation of the Christians and others from the infidels, and because the second and third of imitating the infidels, and was intended to organize the business, for example, interest nation and control its affairs Kosbua traffic and scheduling study and meeting staff to work and so on, which is not conducive to closer to him and worship and veneration own behalf, is one of the innovation which is not covered by saying peace be upon him: "It is the latest in a hurry this is not part of it is a response" there is nothing wrong but it is legitimate.
May Allaah send blessings upon our Prophet Muhammad and grant him peace.
Standing Committee for Scientific Research and Issuing Fatwas, "Fatwas of the Standing Committee" (3 / 59.61).
2 - and said - well -
Not permissible to celebrate the so-called "Holiday Mother" and similar innovated festivals because the Prophet - peace be upon him - "an action that is not a matter of ours will have it rejected," not to celebrate the mother of his peace be upon him and the work of his friends, God bless them The work of the nation's predecessor, but it is a fad and imitation of the kuffaar. "fatwas of the Standing Committee" (3 / 86).
3 - Sheikh Abdul Aziz bin Baz:
Seen on the newspaper (seminar) in its issue dated 30/11/1384 H. under the title (honoring the mother .. and in honor of the family) Volvi writer has favored in some respects as coined by the west of the allocated day of the year celebrates the mother and to ask him something anonymous intellectuals in bringing about this today and this is what receives children who are faced with the loss of the mother of gloom and sadness when they see their peers celebrating and honoring their mothers suggested that the celebration for the whole family and apologized for not coming of Islam in this feast; because Islamic law has necessitated the honor of the mother.
The best writer in apologized him about Islam and in the immensity of bad this holiday that may be overlooked by wrought, but did not refer to the heresies of the violation of an explicit stipulations of the Prophet of Islam was the best blessings and peace, and to the damage and similar to the polytheists and infidels I wanted this word brief to draw the attention of the writer and others what is in this innovation and others caused by the enemies of Islam and ignorant of its innovations in religion, even distorted his reputation and alienated the people from it and won because of that confusion and division do not knows how harmful and corrupt but God Almighty.
It is proven in the saheeh ahaadeeth from the Messenger of Allah - peace be upon him - warning of Issues in Science and in religion and similar enemies of God of the Jews, Christians and other infidels, such as saying - peace be upon him -: {of the latest in this matter of ours that is not part it rejected.} Agreed , in a word for a Muslim {an action that is not a matter of ours will have it rejected} , meaning: it is a return to what caused and was - peace be upon him - said in his sermon on Friday: {After the best modern book of Allah and the best guidance is the guidance of Muhammad be upon him, and evil things are those which are innovated and every innovation is misguidance} Narrated by Muslim in his Saheeh , no doubt that the allocation of day of the year to celebrate the honor of the mother or the family of the newly-invented things that did not do the Messenger of Allah - peace be upon him - and his companions Almrdion, so we left and warn people against it , and be content with by Allah and His Messenger.
This has been a writer pointed out that Islam came to honor the mother and the incitement to honor her all the time have believed in it, the Muslims should content themselves with what Allaah has prescribed for them from the mainland delivery and optimize and treat her kindly and hearing her known all the time and beware of newly invented matters, which warned God ones, which lead them to similar enemies of God and walk in their passengers and the desirability of what Asthassanoh of innovation, and are not that special mother, but may God's law for Muslims to honor the parents are all honored and treat them kindly and link all kinship and cautious interpretation of the meaning of disobedience and estrangement singled out the mother with more care, and land; because attention Balold the largest ever meted out of hardship in the carry and breastfeed him and bring him over, said God: ) and your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him and dutiful to your parents ( Isra / 23 , and the Almighty said: ) And We have enjoined man to his parents his mother, and here they and segregator in two years give thanks to Me and to your parents ( Luqman / 14 , and the Almighty said: ) Is Asitm that you assumed that the mischief in the land and cut down Erhamkm. Those are they whom Allah has cursed, Vosmanm ( Mohammed / 23.22.
Saheeh hadeeth from the Messenger of Allah - peace be upon him - said: Shall I not tell the greatest sin? They said: Yes, O Messenger of Allah, said: involvement in God, disobeying parents, and was reclining, he said: only false speech and false witness, and asked him, peace be upon him man said: O Messenger of God any more deserving people in good company? He asked, he said: Then who? He said: Then your mother, he said: Then who? He said: Then your mother, he said: Then who? He said: father, then the closest next closest.
He said - peace be upon him - {not enter Paradise.} , ie, boycotted the womb of the age of puberty with him - peace be upon him - said: 'Whoever would like to simplify it in the living and the ties of in him pray have mercy} , and the verses and ahaadeeth in honoring one's parents and kinship and the statement of the right of the mother of many famous and as we mentioned, including the adequacy and an indication of what else it indicates to blame for significant phenomenon on the necessity of honoring the parents of all and respect and treat them kindly and to other relatives at all times, and guides that disobeying parents and severing of ties of the worst characteristics and major sins, according to which fire and the wrath of mighty ask God to keep us from it.
This informed and greater than caused by the west of the allocation of the mother honored on the day of the year only and then discarded in the rest of the year, with reluctance to the right of the father and other relatives, is no secret Allbeb the consequences of this action of the grand corruption with being contrary to the laws of the wisest rulers, and is positive for the occurrence of The messenger warned of the Secretary.
And joining this customization and innovation is what many people of the celebration of Mawlid, and the anniversary of the independence of the country, or Breasting on the throne of the king, and so on, these are all issues in Science, which awarded where many of the Muslim other enemies of God and overlooked what was brought by sharee'ah of warning and it is forbidden, and this confirms the saheeh hadeeth from the Messenger of Allah - peace be upon him - when he said: {will certainly follow the ways of those who came before you step by step, even if they entered the hole of a lizard, enter it too, they said: O Messenger of God Jews and Christians? He said it} , and in the last word: {to Take on my socket before the United Shubra inch cubit, they said: O Messenger of Allaah, the Persians and Romans? He said it is? ! , meaning it is meant only those have occurred as told by the truthful and trustworthy - peace be upon him - to follow up this nation only from God, including those who were before them, the Jews and the Christians and the Magians and other unbelievers in many of their morals and their business even persisted Weird Islam and became a guidance infidels, and they were following of ethics and business best when lots of people, which was brought by Islam, and even became known as evil and evil is known and the year heresy and heresy years when more creatures because of ignorance and turning away from what brought by Islam ethics generous and good deeds straight Verily to Allah and to Him we return.
We ask God to help Muslims to understand His religion and to set the conditions and guide their leaders and to help our scientists, writers for the publication of the pros of our religion and to warn of innovation and innovation that distort his reputation and alienated him that power over all things and the blessings and peace upon His slave and Messenger Muhammad and his companions, and wire him and follow his Sunnah until the Day of of religion. " Shaykh Ibn Baaz "(5 / 189).
4 - Shaykh Saalih al:
It is a tradition that is being infidels in imitation of the matters of worship, such as imitating them in matters of shirk to build on the graves, and the construction of scenes and exaggerating them. Has said - peace be upon him: - " God's curse on the Jews and the Christians took the graves of their Prophets mosque , "and told that if they died among them righteous man on his grave, and photographed the images, and they most evil of mankind, was signed in this evidence of major shirk because Extremism in the graves, as is well known to the private, public, and the reason for this tradition of Jews and Christians.
It is the imitation of the festivals polytheistic and heretical birthday celebrations, whether the birth of the Prophet - peace be upon him - and holidays, presidents and kings, and called this holiday heretical or pagan days or weeks - as today national of the country, Mother's Day and a week cleaning - and other holidays daily, weekly, all imported to the Muslims from the infidels; otherwise it is not in Islam, only two festivals: Eid al-Fitr and Eid al-Adha, and what else is heresy and tradition of the infidels, Muslims must be aware of that and deceived a lot than do those who belong to Islam, which is ignorant of the truth of Islam, is located at these things out of ignorance, or ignorant of the truth of Islam but it is intended these things, Valmuseibh then most, ) Indeed in the Messenger of Allah a good example for him who hopes for Allah and the Last Day and remembers Allah much. ( parties / 21. of speech "to urge violation of the infidels"
5 - and Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saalih from the ruling on celebrating so-called gala mother?.
He replied:
All celebrations which differ from the Eids prescribed in Islam are innovated festivals incident were not known at the time of the pious predecessors and probably originating from non-Muslims as well; in which case as being an innovation similar to the enemies of Allah Almighty, and holidays legitimacy is known to the people of Islam, the Eid al-Fitr and Eid al-Adha, The gala week (on Friday) and not in Islam Birthdays only these three festivals, and all Birthdays caused only so they rejected the Mahdtija and void in the law of God, because the Prophet - peace be upon him - " from the latest in this matter of ours that is not part it rejected. "ie, an argument can be unacceptable to God in a word:" an action that is not a matter of ours will have it rejected , "and if found, it may not be at the feast mentioned in the question, namely Gala mother, may not be the creation of something of the rituals of the feast, not permissible to show joy and pleasure, and giving gifts and the like, What the Muslim should be proud of his religion and be proud of and limited to what only God Almighty for His slaves, not increases it does not detract from it, which the Muslim should also not be a follow every crowed, but his character should be under the law of God To be a leader and example, and not a follower Mtasaa; because the law of God - thank God - complete in all respects as the Almighty said : ) Today I have perfected your religion for you and completed My Favour upon you and chosen for you Islam as your religion ( and the mother has more right that celebrates a day in year, but the mother's right over her children to obey, and to take care of them, and that they Btaatha not in disobedience to God - the Almighty - in both time and place. " fatwas of Islamic "(1 / 124) and Shaykh Ibn 'Uthaymeen (2 / 301 , 302).
6 - Shaykh al-Islam - the comment on the subject a little like -
Thus it is clear to you, Kamal site Sharia Alhanifip, and some of the rule of what the law of God to His Messenger [of] Mbayna infidels and violating the public matters; to be a violation Rasul Article evil and far from falling into the mistakes that people should be for a Muslim if you asked him his family and his children something that referred them to what Allah and His Messenger and spend them in the Holiday God A_i_rafhm rights are cut to the other did not liked it and no strength except in God and his family has angered God and God grant him trustworthy.
Should beware sapiens from the obedience of women in this and in the correct from Usama ibn Zayd said: The Messenger of Allah - peace be upon him -: {I have not left me any fitnah more harmful to men than women }, and the most corrupt king and the states obeying women, In Saheeh al-Bukhaari from Abu Reel said: The Messenger of Allah - peace be upon him - not returned {the people of Iowa and a woman as their} . .. Has said - peace be upon him - the mothers of the believers to Rajanh in the provision of Abu Bakr: "Anken dwellers Youssef} , he wants to women intimacy Review a pulp as he said in another hadeeth: {What I saw lacking in reason and the religion of most of the pulp with a pulp, than you }.
The scholars said: the man should strive to God in the reform of his wife, and said - peace be upon him -: { Whoever imitates a people is one of them . "Majmoo" (25 / 324-326).
And Allah knows best.
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